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A Single Revolution: Don’t Look for a Match. Light One

A Single Revolution: Don’t Look for a Match. Light One, by Shani Silver

A reader recommended this to me, and I am wholeheartedly recommending this to you. If you’re single and wondering what’s wrong with you, Silver has some welcome news for you. There’s nothing wrong with you. There’s a whole lot wrong with our culture, and don’t get her started on the business model of dating apps (seriously—delete those things), but you, Dear Reader? You’re lovely. Your life is worth living right now, exactly as it is, and you do not need a partner to validate your worth as a human. This doesn’t mean being single forever, if that’s not what you want, but it does mean that you can stop trying to fix yourself to fit someone else’s idea of a perfect partner.

Silver self-published this book, and it can get a little repetitive at times, but this is well worth the read if you are single and also worth the read if you’re not and have ever found yourself trying to fix your single friends.

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